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Brad Feld On The Emotional Operating System of Great Leaders and Giving First

Jan 20, 2026

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00:00 — Cold open: “Something new is fucked up in my world every day”

02:00 — The Yoda t-shirt story + the mythology of Brad Feld

04:00 — “Give First” vs. “Pay it Forward”: philosophy, not obligation

07:00 — Why giving isn’t altruism — and how it works in complex systems

10:00 — Positive-sum vs. zero-sum: tennis, trust, and long games

13:00 — Does giving create outcomes, or just energy?

16:00 — Why Brad writes books: longform thinking as meaning-making

20:00 — Searching for meaning through mentorship and reflection

23:00 — “I hate the phrase pattern recognition” — mentorship done right

28:00 — The power dynamic between founders and mentors

32:00 — Management through commitment, not control

35:00 — Agile as an operating system for accountability

38:00 — Emotional intelligence and the role of executive coaches

41:00 — Mentor vs. coach vs. therapist vs. advisor

45:00 — Trust as the foundation of all high-leverage relationships

47:30 — Wild story: when the second floor of Sphero’s building collapsed

52:00 — “They can’t kill you and they can’t eat you” – Len Fassler’s advice

55:00 — Closing thoughts on being the Bill Murray of venture capital

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